Every relationship has that honeymoon period. It can last anywhere from a
few weeks to a few months. Once the intense cuteness has faded, usually
things have settled to the point you are comfortable and secure with
one another. This does not mean your man has gone off of you; it's just
another stage in your relationship. Now lets have a look at 10 Top signs that he is loosing interest in you...
1.
He only wants to hang out in groups
Yeah, this is never a good sign. When he trades
intimate alone time with you for group hangouts or a guy's night out, it is a
clear sign he is looking at other options. His goal is to find his place in the
world again, so when he leaves you he has friends (and maybe a girlfriend) to
move on with.
2.
He stops touching you
If you always hold hands when you go out, or if he
always has his hand on your back when walking down the sidewalk...and those
small but intimate touches abruptly stop, he is pulling away.
3.
Talking becomes a chore
If your man is pulling away, deep conversations are
traded in for an annoyingly large amount of small talk with a few one word
answers sprinkled in. Talking with your partner should be fun and effortless,
so if it becomes grudging and awkward, that is a sign you are losing him.
4.
You are not his first, second or third priority
If he loves you, then he will make time for you. Maybe
he has one or two things that come before you, but any more than that means he
doesn't deserve you. You should be his top priority and he should make you feel
that way. If he is putting friends and unimportant hobbies before you, it's a
clear sign he is moving on.
5.
His plans become vague
If he stops making plans for the future or becomes
unsure about his Friday nights, he is probably keeping his schedule free for
someone or something else.
6.
He stops trying
He doesn't dress up to see you anymore, he doesn't
surprise you at work with flowers and he never texts you just because. He is
there, but he isn't really there because he has stopped putting any effort into
caring when it comes to you. When he's given up, it's time for you to do the
same.
7.
The friendship talk begins
If he tells you how good of a friend you are, or if he
introduces you to others as his friend that is his not so subtle way of telling
you he just wants to be friends.
8.
He becomes very protective of his cell phone
He shouldn't care if you know the pass code to get
into his phone or if you read a text over his shoulder. So when he becomes
overly protective of his phone it's a dead giveaway he's hiding something from
you.
9. He needs
a break
This one is pretty obvious, but all too often when a
guy tells us he wants to take a break just to figure things out, we stick
around. We let him have his freedom while we wait until he gets bored and comes
back to us. If he says he wants to take a break, but doesn't officially break
it off, that is your cue to let him go and move on with your life.
10.
He hurts you
The man who loves you should never purposely hurt you.
If you end up crying more often than not when you are together, then he is probably
trying to push you away to save himself the trouble of actually having to break
up with you. Don't stand for this kind of manipulation.
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