Every man's needs are different; which calls for fulfillment attention. Having the desire to fulfill your husband's needs is in no way submitting yourself to an inferior role as a wife. If you genuinely love your spouse, then is high time you read this article to find where you went wrong in your relationship journey.
Ø Recreational
companionship
My
husband and I are a classic example of a couple with hardly anything in common,
especially when it comes to hobbies. We enjoy doing our own things - which can
be good in a marriage. But when we spend time together doing what he likes,
it's often a win-win. Spending the evening golfing with my husband was never
something I would have chosen, but I ended up having a great time. In fact, it
was one of the best dates I have ever been on. Show your husband you care about
him by showing some interest in his hobbies. He may even return the favor and
spend the day doing what you want to do!
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Ø Sexual
fulfillment
This
can be a touchy subject, but it's an important one. One thing my husband and I
have learned is to never treat intimacy like a game - to never withhold it as
punishment. Doing so only intensifies feelings of negativity and resentment.
Intimacy brings couples together better than anything, and if it's important to
your husband, it needs to be important to you. Whether or not marital intimacy
is special depends on the attitude and effort of those involved.
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Ø Admiration
In
a healthy relationship, your husband is doing his part - whether that's having
a career, going to school, staying home with children, etc. Most of his actions
may go unnoticed. For example, my husband works 8-10 hours a day, then spends
his evenings going to school or doing homework. You may not physically see how
much your husband does for your family every day, which can make his efforts
easier to forget - out of sight, out of mind. Remember, as often as possible,
show and tell your husband how much you love and appreciate all he does for
you.
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Ø Domestic
support
Domestic
support involves the creation of a peaceful and well-managed home environment.
You and your husband may share household chores and other home responsibilities
equally, or your husband may need you to handle these responsibilities more
often if he is busy handling others. Again, in a healthy relationship, your
husband should be doing his part. If this is the case, fulfill hubby's needs by
cooking meals, washing dishes, keeping your home clean, etc.
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Ø An
attractive spouse
As
a wife of almost 12 years, I know how familiar and comfortable wives can get
with their husbands - which is great. As a mother of four, I know how easy it
is to stay in my pajamas all day, how luxurious it is to wait and shower when I
actually have five minutes of privacy. Some days are like that, and that's OK,
but don't let this type of thing become a habit. Put effort into making
yourself attractive to your spouse. If you don't see your husband until he
walks in the door 30 seconds before dinnertime, schedule a few minutes
beforehand to freshen yourself up. I started doing this a couple years ago and
noticed a positive difference in my husband's mood when he came home. Bonus: it
makes me feel great, too.
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