1. Make time for the
two of you
You have a calendar for your family so you don't forget all
the activities for your children, important birthdays, and other appointments.
When was the last time you saw something on that calendar for you and your
spouse? Your relationship is as much a priority as your child's soccer
practice. Put it on your calendar, and don't move it.
2. Reassure your
spouse of your affection for her
Your body changes as you age. As a result, your spouse may
not feel as attractive as she did before kids. When your spouse doesn't feel
sexy, he doesn't feel as excited for sex. Reassuring your spouse of your
affection for him helps him to feel loved, cared for, and attractive.
3 Redefine foreplay
With children around, you don't have as much private time in
the bedroom. Don't waste the private time you do have on foreplay. Foreplay
doesn't have to be physical. Sending each other sexy text messages throughout
the day and notes in each other's lunch boxes are just as effective as physical
foreplay.
5. Get creative
With children around, sex can't be as spontaneous as it used
to be. There's a greater risk of being interrupted. Instead of waiting until
all the conditions are right (which might take a long time), get creative about
where and when to do it. Sex can still be connecting and romantic at creative
times and places.
6. Too tired is not a
good reason
After the kids are finally in bed, you're so exhausted that
the last thing on your mind is sex. When your spouse makes an advance, you end
up having a whole conversation about why you're not in the mood and how upset
you are that he would even think about sex after the kind of day you just had.
Just think, you probably could have had sex and skipped the fight you just had.
Besides, there are few things that help you sleep better than snuggling up with
your spouse after a connecting night of sex.
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