1. Tell her you love her
What’s first and foremost among women’s desires: Women wish men would do and say those three important words sincerely and every day. Don’t multi-task or walk away when you tell her. Make her the focus of the moment: Look her in the eye, touch her softly, and let her see you mean it. Let her know that you’d marry her all over again. Tell her why you love her and want to be with her forever.
What’s first and foremost among women’s desires: Women wish men would do and say those three important words sincerely and every day. Don’t multi-task or walk away when you tell her. Make her the focus of the moment: Look her in the eye, touch her softly, and let her see you mean it. Let her know that you’d marry her all over again. Tell her why you love her and want to be with her forever.
2. Compliment her
Surprise her by giving specific compliments about how great she is as your mate, as a parent, partner, sister, friend, volunteer. By being observant and mindful, there will be lots of opportunities for you to find ways to compliment her in specific ways. Tell her she’s sexy. Don’t be cheesy, be thoughtful , sincere and creative. Woo her all over again, again and again.
Surprise her by giving specific compliments about how great she is as your mate, as a parent, partner, sister, friend, volunteer. By being observant and mindful, there will be lots of opportunities for you to find ways to compliment her in specific ways. Tell her she’s sexy. Don’t be cheesy, be thoughtful , sincere and creative. Woo her all over again, again and again.
3. Write to her
Your woman (and overall) women wish men would do and express how much she means to you through short love notes, text messages, Facebook post, on the mirror. Words that express how important she is to you, a sexual fantasy, date night idea, praise and compliments.
Your woman (and overall) women wish men would do and express how much she means to you through short love notes, text messages, Facebook post, on the mirror. Words that express how important she is to you, a sexual fantasy, date night idea, praise and compliments.
4. Say YES!
When she asks for a favor, always say yes with a smile. And then, just do it! Do it in a timely manner– don’t make her turn into a nag. Do things to lighten her load even before she asks you! (Men, did you know that your doing chores increases a woman’s desire? Think as chores as foreplay). Women wish men would do more things that don’t need to be asked, reminded or nagged, so keep saying “Yes” all the time.
When she asks for a favor, always say yes with a smile. And then, just do it! Do it in a timely manner– don’t make her turn into a nag. Do things to lighten her load even before she asks you! (Men, did you know that your doing chores increases a woman’s desire? Think as chores as foreplay). Women wish men would do more things that don’t need to be asked, reminded or nagged, so keep saying “Yes” all the time.
5. Be affectionate
Give her an unexpected spontaneous hug, surprise her with a romantic kiss, or tease her with a playful tickle both in private and public. Talk with her ( not to her or at her) and make an effort to treat her like a cherished prize in tone, words, non-verbally, touch and deeds.
Give her an unexpected spontaneous hug, surprise her with a romantic kiss, or tease her with a playful tickle both in private and public. Talk with her ( not to her or at her) and make an effort to treat her like a cherished prize in tone, words, non-verbally, touch and deeds.
6. Make time for her
Schedule time every day to spend leisurely together. The most basic human need is to feel valued and understood. Let her know that you value your intimate relationship by wanting and making time for just the two of you.
Schedule time every day to spend leisurely together. The most basic human need is to feel valued and understood. Let her know that you value your intimate relationship by wanting and making time for just the two of you.
7. Listen without fixing
If she needs to share something that upset her, let her emote and patiently listen with an open heart. She doesn’t necessarily want you to fix-it , she just wants to be heard. Resist your impulse to help solve her problem or complaint. Just listen. Having someone who listens can be very healing and bonding. After listening, let her know that you understand what she’s relating by mirroring back and asking clarifying questions. If she asks for your opinion, give it.
If she needs to share something that upset her, let her emote and patiently listen with an open heart. She doesn’t necessarily want you to fix-it , she just wants to be heard. Resist your impulse to help solve her problem or complaint. Just listen. Having someone who listens can be very healing and bonding. After listening, let her know that you understand what she’s relating by mirroring back and asking clarifying questions. If she asks for your opinion, give it.
8. Remember important dates
Always celebrate your anniversary, birthdays, the day you two met and all sorts of other special occasions. It can be big or little, what matters most is the act of celebrating and affirming your relationship. We recommend you look for things to honor, memorialize and enjoy yourselves!
Always celebrate your anniversary, birthdays, the day you two met and all sorts of other special occasions. It can be big or little, what matters most is the act of celebrating and affirming your relationship. We recommend you look for things to honor, memorialize and enjoy yourselves!
9. Make her morning
Carve out a few minutes every day to make her life easier and more pleasant with acts of kindness and affection. When you wake up, roll over and tell her how lucky you feel to be with her, pour her coffee or make her tea, help make the bed, throw a load of laundry into the washer, attend to the pets and children’s needs before she thinks to do it herself.
Carve out a few minutes every day to make her life easier and more pleasant with acts of kindness and affection. When you wake up, roll over and tell her how lucky you feel to be with her, pour her coffee or make her tea, help make the bed, throw a load of laundry into the washer, attend to the pets and children’s needs before she thinks to do it herself.
10. Greet her warmly
Get off the couch, put down your mobile, tablet, end a phone call,turn off the computer in order to give her the attention she craves by greeting her with eyes and lips the smile and hug.
Get off the couch, put down your mobile, tablet, end a phone call,turn off the computer in order to give her the attention she craves by greeting her with eyes and lips the smile and hug.
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