Negative
emotions makes our lives difficult, especially when one fail to handle in the
right way.
1.
Fill your mind with timeless truth so you can focus on that despite changing
emotions.
The
more biblical truth you have in your mind when Satan attacks through your
emotions, the more likely it is that you’ll win the battle. So make a habit of
reading the Bible and meditating on the words you read.
Every day, ask the Holy Spirit to renew your mind. Then God’s truth will come
to your mind in any situation where your emotions are shouting at you to make a
certain choice. As the Bible’s powerful words come to you during emotional
moments, they will remind you of what’s really true so you can make decisions
from an accurate perspective.
2.
Give yourself a timeout when you notice your emotions spiraling out of control.
Stop
to reflect and pray during times when you realize that a feeling is
overwhelming you. Just like parents give children timeouts to teach them how to
recognize and control their emotions, you can take a timeout and check in with
your heavenly parent - God - when strong emotions come to your attention.
During those breaks, consider what you’re really feeling, and why. For
instance, if you feel lust pulling you toward your cell phone and compelling
you to look at pornography on it, stop the process by taking a timeout. Try to
identify the emotions you’re experiencing at that moment. If you can, figure out
why you’re feeling that way, by forcing yourself to step out of the situation
and study it, you can stop unhealthy impulsive behavior and gain a wiser
perspective on what’s happening.
3.
Deal honestly with the uncomfortable emotions you feel.
You
may sometimes deny, ignore, or suppress emotions that trouble you. For example,
if you’re feeling jealous, you’re probably also feeling embarrassed and ashamed
about feeling that way. No one likes to admit jealousy. Yet if you don’t deal
with it, envious emotions will distort your perspective on your life. That will
leave you vulnerable to Satan’s attacks, because Satan will twist the truth to
get your attention; if you’re confused you may believe what he tells you. So
whenever you notice you’re feeling an emotion that makes you uncomfortable,
acknowledge it, and try to check in with God about it in that moment or soon
afterward probably through a silent prayer. Keep in mind that it’s normal to
experience lots of uncomfortable emotions in this fallen world, and that your
emotions themselves aren’t necessarily wrong. What’s sinful is choosing to
respond to the emotions you feel in the wrong ways. So if you feel jealous of
another person, you can feel that way and still be right with God if you
confess how you feel to God and rely on his help to respond faithfully. But if
you don’t intentionally deal with how you feel, your jealousy will make you
vulnerable to temptations from Satan to say or do something wrong when relating
to the person of whom you’re envious.
4.
Take care of your physical health, which is connected to your emotional health.
If
your body isn’t feeling well, your emotions can be difficult to manage. Just
think about the last time you snapped at someone in anger while you were tired,
or when you worried about something while hungry, but then felt better after
eating. Ask God to help you develop healthy physical habits that will nurture
your body, mind, and spirit as they work together according to God’s design. Do
your best to eat nutritious foods, drink plenty of water, exercise regularly,
and get enough sleep on a regular basis. The more physically stable you are,
the more emotionally stable you can be.
5.
Learn lessons God wants to teach you through your emotions.
God
often uses emotions as teaching tools. Emotions are gifts from God, whom the
Bible describes as having an emotional essence (“God is love.” – 1 John 4:8).
But emotions constantly change as circumstances change, and they may easily
misinterpreted when you’re not thinking of them from a Spirit-led perspective.
So pray for guidance every day, asking God to help you discern the messages he
sends you through your feelings. Think of your emotions as school bells ringing
for you to pay attention, and the Holy Spirit as your teacher who communicates
with you once you come to class. Rather than just reacting to your emotions (as
Satan tempts you to do), respond to them with the purpose of learning and
growing closer to God in the process.
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