Please, husbands! Your wife isn't an object. She is
your wife, your best friend and your queen. She deserves your utmost respect,
especially when it comes to sexual intimacy. Always respect her and her body
and work on establishing emotional connection and trust before thinking about
sharing sexual intimacy with your wife. Sex can be the most unifying,
fulfilling and beautiful thing in marriage when you both treat each other
respectfully.
2.
Controlling
Believe it or not, you aren't always right. And your
beautiful wife is actually very good at making her own decisions (and typically
she makes very good decisions). So stop feeling like you need to control where
she's going, what she's doing, how much she's spending and more. Instead of
stressing about that, work together as a team, encouraging and supporting each
other. Let your wife be her own person, and give her wings to fly.
3.
Critical
Please watch yourself and don't get caught in the trap
of criticizing your wife. Choose to see the good in your wife. Compliment her
on all the things she is doing right. Next time you find yourself wanting to
tell her something you don't like about her, switch it around and pay her a
sincere compliment. She will love it.
4.
Doesn't give you the time of day
You have a wife. You lucky guy. Please don't forget
about her. Don't be too busy to call her, text her or recognize her when she
walks in the room. The next time you see her, give her a big hug and tell her
you love her. Let her know she is your top priority by putting her first -
ahead of work, time with your buddies, or watching that game. Sit on the couch
and talk to her. Tell her about your day, your thoughts, your worries, and your
funny experiences. Beware, you may find that sparks suddenly start flying
around like crazy.
5.
Uses crude or dirty language
Husbands, come on. You aren't teenage boys anymore
(and even then, bad language wasn't really cool). Watch your mouth. Work to cut
the swearing habit, and remove crude, rude and dirty language from your
vocabulary. You may be amazed at all the other words available for use in
expressing your feelings. Your wife deserves to hear words that a gentleman
would speak, not a raga-muffin. Buy yourself a dictionary. OK, not really, but
try some new words. Your wife will be tickled pink and others will think you're
much more intelligent.
6.
Views pornography
This is one sure way to ruin your marriage, your life
and your future. Simply put, don't view pornography and let your eyes linger
everywhere you go. Look inward and decide to choose a better path. If you are
entrenched in the ugly habit of pornography, seek out professional help (there
are many great resources to turn to). Find a counselor who can help you begin
the process of becoming free from this addiction. You have to want change for
yourself and for those you love. So dig deep and decide what kind of life you
really want.
7.
Has too high of expectations
The last thing your sweet wife needs to hear is that
she doesn't measure up to your unrealistic expectations. Please don't compare
your wife's body, budgeting skills, or parenting skills to so-and-so down the
street. Your comparisons will, over time, crush her self-esteem. Decide to be
kind, to be patient, to be forgiving and to be flexible. The more you emphasize
all of her positive qualities, the more she will naturally start living up to
those positive compliments and become the woman you describe, and more.
8.
Doesn't help out around the house
Seriously? You may bring in half the income, or all of
it, but that doesn't mean you can chill on the couch while your wife cleans,
tidies and washes dishes day-in and day-out. Kick it up a notch and offer to
help out. Clean the toilet (yes, the one you use every day), carry in the
groceries or unload the dishwasher (oh, the horror). You and your wife are a
team and ought to work side by side creating the home of your dreams.
9.
Loses his temper often
You are a grown man. Yelling at your wife is not
appropriate, effective or helpful. Hitting is completely off limits. Rage,
lashing out, throwing things and threatening are all forms of abuse. You can
learn to control your temper. You can learn to respond calmly and with love. As
you do, your wife will feel safe with you and love being around you.
10.
Lies and cheats
If you think you can sneak off with that babe from
work and your wife will never know, then you're kidding yourself and in for a
very rude awakening. And honestly, even if your wife never found out, it's
still wrong. Don't throw away everything that is truly meaningful for a
fleeting moment of pleasure. Choose to be honest. Choose to be loyal. Live up
to those promises you made to your bride. She deserves all that, and more.
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