3 HONEST REASONS WHY WOMEN CHEAT (NUMBER 3 MAKES THEM CHEAT EVEN ON GUYS THEY LOVE!) MUST READ!

Getting laid by a stranger has never been easier, thanks to technology.
This is equally true for singles as well as married individuals, thanks to a variety of websites and apps that cater to people looking for easy, casual s3x.

But having s*x with someone new isn’t usually the  reason why people cheat.
Both men and women cheat because something is missing in their lives. The need to fill in that missing piece is what leads to affairs — and often divorce.

Today, men and women stray at similar rates according  to a study by the University of Indiana, but for different reasons.
While there are surveys about why women cheat, I am going to focus on my own experience helping couples move past their affairs.

Here are the top 3 reasons I’ve heard, from the cheaters  themselves, about why women cheat:

1. Lack of connection.
The primary driver that women have in an intimate  relationship is to feel connected.
For women, the feeling of connection is a mix of chemical bliss that creates attraction and intimacy.

When women feel disconnected from their spouse, the  feelings of intimacy fade. The possibility of a new connection with someone else opens up. And these emotional connections can easily lead to physical affairs.
That can happen through Facebook with an old boyfriend, a friendly co-worker, or even an intriguing stranger. The common theme is simply that an emotional connection was created and led to the affair.

2. Vengeance.
This may be unpopular to some, but in my experience,  about 1 in 5 affairs by women happen because of “pay-back”.
It’s revenge for the husband’s affair, or maybe even vengeance for some perceived wrong or mistreatment.

Numerous women have confided that their affairs were intentional “pay-back” because their husbands didn’t help out enough with their newborn babies and toddlers.
Others have mentioned that it was revenge for an  unmet expectation around Valentine’s Day or their Birthday, or Anniversary.

I’ve heard directly from women who cheated because their husbands wouldn’t take time off of work or change jobs, or didn’t help out enough around the house.

3. Unsatisfying s3x.
It’s no secret that people’s stressful, fully scheduled, fast-paced living leads to unsatisfying s*x lives. Lack of passionate and fulfilling s*x is another driver for women who have affairs.
While men may complain about the quantity of s*x,  women complain about the quality.
Women often comment on the lack of s*x initiated by their husbands, with the desired amount of passion.

Here’s a sample of what they’ve said to me; “I want him  to just take me spontaneously”, “I want him to throw me on the bed”, “I want him to be more aggressive.”
There is no doubt that women are often less satisfied with their marriage than men.