1.
“Not like that.”
Well, this is one of the
surest thing that is bound to break your relationship with her. Always
remember in grade school when you were taught to give “constructive criticism?”
You should probably know
this, that is, Constructive criticism does not work with Women. it’s a life
fact. This does not apply to your lady in the bedroom. “It’s not very seΧy or
encouraging to be told our skills are subpar in the heat of the moment,” says
Amy Levine, $ex coach and founder of Ignite Your Pleasure disclosed.
“If you want to change the
way your girlfriend or S.O do things in the bedroom, you should always frame it
in the positive by talking about what you do like.
2. “My ex used to love it when I…”
Hello sire, you are not
dating your ex, but your current girlfriend. Guys should stop making the
mistake of the century, by comparing or bringing in, their ex girlfriend’s
behaviour, likes and dislikes in special moments.
All women
are different, so don’t lean heavily on past experiences—and definitely don’t
discuss it with your girlfriend. Importantly, “who’s to say that the previous
women didn’t fake their pleasure just to get you to finish quicker?” Levine
says. ZING! Aside from that, §exologist Gloria Brame, Ph.D. also took out time
to explain and points out that “talking about your prior §εxual encounters can
drive a woman completely crazy—and not in a good way. She doesn’t need to hear
about it, and if you do intentional or unintentionally bring it up, she’ll feel
threatened and jealous. For a lot of women, that’s a deal-breaker.”
3. “I have to be out of here by 4:00.”
Stop using and making
statements like “I need to wake up super early tomorrow”, you are indirectly
telling the lady, that she’s not on your priority list.
Men should learn how to stop
making allusions, to the idea that you don’t have much time when in bed with
their girlfriend or wife. This is one big major mood-killer.
“If you
absolutely must talk about somewhere that you need to be, or the fact that
you’re in a rush, at least wait until afterward, not before or during the
stuff, you are actually killing the mood!”
4. “I wish you had more a$$ to grab!”
This is one word i will
advice all my male friends never to use on a Woman. You want to know why?
Here’s the answer.
Women are most times,
extremely insecure, especially when they’re naked and most vulnerable.
So for you to go round, and
start pointing out things about other women’s bodies that you like,
particularly ones that highlight what your partner doesn’t have, is a major no
and mood killer,” says Levine. Also agreeing with this point is Brame, who
adds: “Anything that’s going to make a woman self-conscious is a female-libido
kill. She’ll shut down immediately.”
5. “Did you come yet?”
This is one thing guys should
always try to avoid. Guys should stop questioning their Girlfriends,partner or
wife on issues like this. Please stop asking if she came or saying that you
want to see her come. That puts way too much pressure on her.”
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