Marriage isn’t easy. Relationships
aren’t easy in general, but marriage is whole other level. You’re suddenly
legally bound to someone else, which makes you far more responsible for them
than if you just lived together. One should always be prepared for well. Find
out hings you must do with your fiancee before deciding to get married.
1.
Disagree with each other
If you always agree
with your future husband, take a step back and think about your relationship.
Disagreements, arguments and different opinions are important in a healthy
relationship. Sometime down the road you are going to disagree about a course
of action, so before you get married, it is vital that you learn to compromise.
2.
Travel together
Going on a road trip
will put you and your future husband in close quarters with each other for a
long time. You will start to recognize different aspects of your relationship
when you are stuck with him. Little annoyances, like singing loudly and off key
to every song that comes on a radio is tolerable for the first 20 minutes, but
after three hours in? Maybe not so much. You might discover that traveling with
your man makes you or him more irritable with one another or more tolerable.
3.
Discuss expectations
You most-likely have an
expectation of how your marriage is going to operate. Perhaps you expect him to
split the household chores evenly and for both of you to work full-time when
you have children. On the other hand, he might expect you to stay home when you
have children and do all of the household chores since you are a stay-at-home
mom.
Before you get married,
tell each other about your expectations for necessities like money, children,
jobs and household duties. Most importantly, discusses your expectations for
each other. You need to know what he expects of himself and of you. He needs to
know what you expect of yourself and of him. Then compromise with one another.
4.
Spend time apart
You love each other and
therefore, you want to spend every moment together, but now is actually the
time to spend time apart. Someone once said distance makes the heart grow
fonder, which is true, but distance also make a relationship healthier. Men and
women need companionship in friends and family. As much as your future husband
loves you, he might not understand your need to talk for hours about everything
under the moon, but your best girlfriend totally understands that need. Don't
be afraid to have a girl's night without him.
5.
Live with someone other than family
Living with someone who
was raised differently than you is important before you get married. You don't
need to live with your fiancé to have this experience. Living with roommates
teaches you to solve household problems like dirty dishes and general
cleanliness. You get used to not having lots of privacy and dealing with other
people's quirks. You also learn how to compromise and how to have healthy
conflicts. These experiences teach you how to adjust to another's living
habits, which is a vital skill you will bring into marriage.
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