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Wednesday, January 25, 2017

Here are things you must do with your fiancee before deciding to get married,Find Out...

Marriage isn’t easy. Relationships aren’t easy in general, but marriage is whole other level. You’re suddenly legally bound to someone else, which makes you far more responsible for them than if you just lived together. One should always be prepared for well. Find out hings you must do with your fiancee before deciding to get married.
1. Disagree with each other
If you always agree with your future husband, take a step back and think about your relationship. Disagreements, arguments and different opinions are important in a healthy relationship. Sometime down the road you are going to disagree about a course of action, so before you get married, it is vital that you learn to compromise.
2. Travel together
Going on a road trip will put you and your future husband in close quarters with each other for a long time. You will start to recognize different aspects of your relationship when you are stuck with him. Little annoyances, like singing loudly and off key to every song that comes on a radio is tolerable for the first 20 minutes, but after three hours in? Maybe not so much. You might discover that traveling with your man makes you or him more irritable with one another or more tolerable.

3. Discuss expectations
You most-likely have an expectation of how your marriage is going to operate. Perhaps you expect him to split the household chores evenly and for both of you to work full-time when you have children. On the other hand, he might expect you to stay home when you have children and do all of the household chores since you are a stay-at-home mom.
Before you get married, tell each other about your expectations for necessities like money, children, jobs and household duties. Most importantly, discusses your expectations for each other. You need to know what he expects of himself and of you. He needs to know what you expect of yourself and of him. Then compromise with one another.

4. Spend time apart
You love each other and therefore, you want to spend every moment together, but now is actually the time to spend time apart. Someone once said distance makes the heart grow fonder, which is true, but distance also make a relationship healthier. Men and women need companionship in friends and family. As much as your future husband loves you, he might not understand your need to talk for hours about everything under the moon, but your best girlfriend totally understands that need. Don't be afraid to have a girl's night without him. 

5. Live with someone other than family
Living with someone who was raised differently than you is important before you get married. You don't need to live with your fiancé to have this experience. Living with roommates teaches you to solve household problems like dirty dishes and general cleanliness. You get used to not having lots of privacy and dealing with other people's quirks. You also learn how to compromise and how to have healthy conflicts. These experiences teach you how to adjust to another's living habits, which is a vital skill you will bring into marriage.

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