The process of
breaking-up is like a black-hole which sucks every ounce of energy and
positivity out of you. Thinking about the consequences too much induces your
mind to get cloudy with bad thoughts resulting in feelings of utter heartbreak
and love-struck nostalgia.
But if you haven’t still figured out that you can’t change the past, then you just need to pay heed to these seven reasons as to why you should be thankful and glad that she left you.
1. Complete Freedom And Nothing Else.
You are often so caught up in the relationship that you forget to care about your dreams and aspirations. But now you will find complete freedom to take that trip to Europe you have been planning for so long without having to worry about your significant other.
2. More Time For Other Relationships.
Some unshakable relationships of our lives get sidelined because of the relationship. Family and friends who have always been with you through the ups and down, and highs and lows but still love you the same deserve your attention and your appreciation for their support.
3. Because It Makes A Better, Resilient You.
Whatever doesn’t kill you make you stronger. You become a better version of yourself and for that you need to thank her. We grow and we learn but it’s important to not miss those lessons along the way.
4. You Learn How To Re-Prioritize.
You will learn to re-prioritize and straighten-up what you actually really want to do in your life. After a relationship people often need to evaluate where they stand in their life and career and once you go through the whole process, you realize that course correction is actually not a bad thing.
5. Because You Re-Discover The Real You.
Sometimes it’s good to be left alone in peace. You are your best company. You get to re-connect with your inner-self, rediscover your hobbies and take on things which make you happy. Relationships work on compromise and unless you agreed on every major decision with your significant other, chances are that you probably missed something good for the sake of your love.
6. At the Very Least You Are Sure You Are Not Wasting Time With The Wrong Person.
If it was meant to be, then you both would have made it work. If she dumped you then at least you know you are not wasting some of the better years of your life with the wrong person. While you might have felt that your love was ideal and impassable, it is still better to break-up then feel the sting of unreciprocated love every day.
7. Better Understanding Of What Type Of Partner You Want.
She might not have been the One for you but now you know what you really want in your significant other. You attract similar spirits when you actually know what you want in your life and the precious previous experiences help you separate the good from the bad.
So, get on the phone and thank her for dumping you. And when you are done…get her off the speed-dial and move on.
But if you haven’t still figured out that you can’t change the past, then you just need to pay heed to these seven reasons as to why you should be thankful and glad that she left you.
1. Complete Freedom And Nothing Else.
You are often so caught up in the relationship that you forget to care about your dreams and aspirations. But now you will find complete freedom to take that trip to Europe you have been planning for so long without having to worry about your significant other.
2. More Time For Other Relationships.
Some unshakable relationships of our lives get sidelined because of the relationship. Family and friends who have always been with you through the ups and down, and highs and lows but still love you the same deserve your attention and your appreciation for their support.
3. Because It Makes A Better, Resilient You.
Whatever doesn’t kill you make you stronger. You become a better version of yourself and for that you need to thank her. We grow and we learn but it’s important to not miss those lessons along the way.
4. You Learn How To Re-Prioritize.
You will learn to re-prioritize and straighten-up what you actually really want to do in your life. After a relationship people often need to evaluate where they stand in their life and career and once you go through the whole process, you realize that course correction is actually not a bad thing.
5. Because You Re-Discover The Real You.
Sometimes it’s good to be left alone in peace. You are your best company. You get to re-connect with your inner-self, rediscover your hobbies and take on things which make you happy. Relationships work on compromise and unless you agreed on every major decision with your significant other, chances are that you probably missed something good for the sake of your love.
6. At the Very Least You Are Sure You Are Not Wasting Time With The Wrong Person.
If it was meant to be, then you both would have made it work. If she dumped you then at least you know you are not wasting some of the better years of your life with the wrong person. While you might have felt that your love was ideal and impassable, it is still better to break-up then feel the sting of unreciprocated love every day.
7. Better Understanding Of What Type Of Partner You Want.
She might not have been the One for you but now you know what you really want in your significant other. You attract similar spirits when you actually know what you want in your life and the precious previous experiences help you separate the good from the bad.
So, get on the phone and thank her for dumping you. And when you are done…get her off the speed-dial and move on.
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